Hi BC,sorry i did answer one of your Q's via pm..i post and often forget where ive posted,especially if ive posted on a few,totally opologise.
Regarding your Q....Yes all true christians should have love umong themselfs,let me answer more fully.
If someone isnt showing love,they are nasty,cruel whatever then they clearly are NOT christlike and there isnt room for that kind of person within Jahs new order.If someone is trying but they dont come across as loving,maybe they are hard to approach,basically there are many circumstances and we cant all be classed the same. I truly love all people but sadly im judged by other JW actions also,thats fine,not saying on here but in everyday life. I dont look at any who are in Jahs org and who clearly do wrong,i never let them affect my love or relationship with Jehovah,I know Jah will act even if i had to wait a lifetime,thats what unconditional love is....remember Jah gave the ultimate sign of love,Jesus.
Sadly there will be some who are within the cong etc who will bring reproach upon Jahs name but dont look at them and judge us all (not saying YOU but meaning you as in general anyone) I see it that any who clearly display love they are christs disciples.....if they live according to Jahs standards and have no dealings with pagan celebrations and love Jehovah then they are Jesus disciples.
Dont allow others within the cong to push you away.....no mere man made of dust is worth it.